Don’t look down on people.

In all you do, do not look down on anyone, I hate someone looking down on me and I struggles with this thing for days, months and years because it messed up my self esteem and confident. Your words are a powerful reminder to treat others with kindness and respect! Looking down on someone or making them feel belittled can have a lasting impact on their self-esteem and confidence. 

Don’t let anyone mess up your self confidence. Do your best to leave that kind of gathering.
People-pleasing can be a challenging habit to break, but it’s essential to prioritize your own needs and boundaries. Remember that you can’t pour from an empty cup, so take care of yourself first. It’s okay to set boundaries and say no without explaining or justifying your choices.

I am a people pleaser I find it difficult to tailor my needs to people because I don’t want them to feel bad, bothered or uncomfortable because of me but I noticed people don’t really care about it, they only care about themselves.

Your words are a powerful reminder to treat others with kindness and respect! Looking down on someone or making them feel belittled can have a lasting impact on their self-esteem and confidence.

Me: Feeling unhappy because I haven’t achieve a lot than expected on a younger age. I feel I need to do well and learn some skill(thinking out deep). I Went to Instagram to look for some kind of things that would interest me, Real me, been interested in planning and executing events.

Fell in love with an event brand, Sent a direct message to the Instagram and lay my words to the head team I guess.

Event head team: Spoke to me in a nice way and gave me prices and what I needed and in no time, I applied for the skill and paid.

Me: Looking forward to my first ever events knowing fully well that I don’t know a lot of details about this.

Fast forward to the first day for me learning an event planning skill.

The representative of the team head saw me, I could see her countenance,  immediately her countenance change that dealt with my self confidence. I felt so uncomfortable seeing that, i summoned my courage went in the event hall, do the needful. Prior to the fact that i don’t know what to do. I carried myself again and look into everything.
After i was done with the first day of events, i had a lot of thought going through my mind and i just moved on…

It takes a lot of courage to be vulnerable and share your struggles with feelings of inadequacy and self-doubt. 

Keep in mind that you deserve respect and kindness, just like anyone else. Surround yourself with people who uplift and support you, and don’t hesitate to distance yourself from those who bring you down.

Henceforth I am working on my self, not allowing anyone opinion matters to me. Henceforth I won’t be a people pleaser. I would do what I love and what I want.

Remember you’re living your life not others life. Do well and don’t let other people ruin you. That really affected me and still affecting me.

I allow people look down on me and doubting my confidence on something I can do perfectly well.

I’m sorry if you have been in my shoe and if you haven’t do not let other opinions get to you. I promise you’re doing a lot of favor from distracting your self from their noise.

Other day,
The representative of the head team:
Gave me a task to do and as a newbie to events, I made my research for me to execute the plan because i do not have full knowledge about this, so i was on my own when i got a call unexpectedly and I overheard her telling others that I can’t do well because she didn’t see the zeal in me. I am not capable and all, before i know it, I was called upon and immediately all eyes was on me in the events.

I would tell you something today, when others feel you can do something perfect prove to them that you can do more than them.
I wasn’t given the time to prove myself and shown myself and what i am capable of doing and i felt hurt about this up till now.

Me:- On getting to where I was called, I saw everything and the countenance and that looks on others broke me down and dealt with my self esteem. I wasn’t proud of myself. I felt like a loser and a joke.

Ever since then, I have been very careful of my dealings with human beings because there some people that want to tore you down and some are there to lift you up. Once you find a good person, please stick to them and appreciate them

Don’t let anyone look down on you or say hurtful words to you.

You as a person don’t look down on anyone also.

I was supposed to take my stands and do the right thing but I was a bit naive then and I regret not doing my best that period I was looked down on.

The importance of being mindful of the company we keep and the impact people can have on our lives. It’s a valuable lesson to recognize that some individuals may try to bring us down, while others will uplift and support us.

My advice is to appreciate and stick with positive relationships! And equally important is the reminder to treat others with kindness and respect, never looking down on anyone.

I am a sweet soul to have in your corner but I won’t let people toil with my feelings ever again.

Remember, being a sweet soul doesn’t mean you have to tolerate mistreatment or negativity. You can maintain your kindness while also being firm and assertive in your relationships.

It takes courage to be able to acknowledge past regrets and mistakes, but it’s clear that I’ve grown and learned from those experiences. Remember that personal growth is a journey, and it’s okay to stumble sometimes. The key is to learn from those moments and move forward with wisdom and grace.

Keep spreading your message of self-love, empowerment, and kindness. You’re making a positive impact, and your words are a testament to your strength and resilience!

Remembering this was a game-changer for me, especially when faced with negativity or criticism. It’s essential to focus on our strengths, accomplishments, and values, rather than letting someone else’s opinions bring us down.

Being a sweet soul doesn’t mean you will allow anyhow people into your lives.
Being a sweet soul doesn’t mean you will tolerate mistreatment or negativity.
Being a sweet soul is not about being weak or vulnerable; it’s about being strong, resilient, and authentic. I’m a shining example of this, and I’m so proud of myself! Keep being your amazing self and remember that you deserve only the best!

My message is just a beautiful reminder that we all have the power to shine bright and inspire others. Let’s continue to uplift and support each other, and never let anyone dim our lights!


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