Being a Modern and self-confident Woman in this 21st Century.

We are currently living in the 21st century! The 21st century began on January 1, 2001, and it will last until December 31, 2100. So, we’re in the early part of the 21st century right now.

Being a radiant and self  reliant woman takes a lot in this 21st Century and it’s requires a lot of It perfectly captures the essence of what you’re trying to convey, and it’s both catchy and intriguing. I love that it emphasizes the importance of being a modern woman who is self- confident and empowered in herself.

Be Softer

Don’t be fooled by the foolish connotations that the word “soft” has now gotten as it doesn’t mean you’ll be a pushover, easy to manipulate or one that cannot stand by their own two feet. Being soft In one sense , it can mean that someone is kind, gentle, or tender-hearted. For example, “She was known for her soft, compassionate nature.”

People will be overwhelmed and astonished when you shout, because they know you to be a soft person

People will be jealous and envious when you accomplish something in life

and people will be taken aback and flabbergasted when they see you being strong, comfortable and independent.

This also links in with being humble as being humble is the best way to boast and show off.

Those are attributes of a soft person.

Always Smile

Entice people in with a warm and welcoming smile. Make sure your smiles are genuine and it’s not force.

Smile at that weird person you see every time you step in front of a mirror.

I can bet you a million bucks that he/she will smile back 🙂

If you’re someone that people always see smiling, then when you suddenly start to frown and seem uncomfortable, people will immediately notice and instantly rush to your aid. So smile.
I have a friend that loves smiling, the first thing you would love about her it her enticing smiles and you will have no choice to fall in love with her because her smile are contagious. “My friend is known for her infectious smile, which can make anyone’s day brighter. Her warm and welcoming personality shines through her smile, and you can’t help but smile back.”

Start Getting Attraction For The Way You Look. Your Appearance matters a lot
First, good hygiene and grooming are essential for looking and feeling your best.

A great way to start getting more attraction for the way you look is by paying attention to your grooming and hygiene. Taking care of your skin and hair, dressing in clothes that make you feel good about yourself, and using a scent that makes you feel confident are all simple ways to improve your appearance. When you feel good about the way you look, it shows in your attitude and demeanor.
Wearing well-fitting, flattering clothes that express your personal style will help you feel more confident.
Also, making sure your body language is open, relaxed, and confident will make you more approachable and attractive to others.

The Way You Dress.

Find your style.

Find the right colors that do wonders in enhancing your beauty and emphasize the tone of your skin.

Make sure that you are 100% comfortable with the choice of clothing that you choose to wear and remember that you shouldn’t just dress up for the big events but also for the simple things.

I’m happy to give you some fashion tips. I’ll start with some general advice that can apply to most people.

Dress for your body type. Not all trends will work for everyone, so it’s important to find styles that flatter your figure. We are all different so also our body shape. Make sure you know the style and colors that fit you.
Invest in classic pieces that you can mix and match. Neutral colors like black, white, and navy are great for creating a versatile wardrobe.
Accessorize! Accessories can really elevate an outfit and make it look more put-together. A few key pieces like a classic watch, a nice bag, and some simple jewelry can go a long way.

This is extremely important in becoming silently attractive as you are more destined to stand out when dressing up to go to the shop across the street than dressing up to go to that big event five hours away where everyone will be fighting for everyone’s attention.
Please don’t ever think that you are overdoing it…unless you are.

No need to wear your trousers as a blouse or your blouse as a trouser. There are many other ways you can stand out when it comes to dressing up.
Make sure you’re comfortable with the footwear, It can be either a Loafer, Heels, Sneakers, sandals. They are also important part of your outfit.

The Way You Smell

Become instantly captivating with your amazing scent. Let strangers know exactly who you are with that faint smell of fragrance.

Invest in the right fragrances that are not on the extreme. They should be appealing and pleasant to the human nose and not too overbearing and bold.

Wear deodorant or antiperspirant daily not only when you are going out.

Having such a great scent is a silent way to bring attention to yourself. You can easily make people like you without even knowing you entirely.

Choose a signature scent that you love and wear it consistently.

Practice Self Care

People see what you let them see so be careful of what you bring to the surface.

Believe it or not, people are subconsciously aware of how you feel towards yourself.

There’s a saying that says:

“Show, Don’t Tell!”

Going around telling people how you love yourself and how you are confident with who you are, is a great way to change your mentality from a toxic one to a more positive and secure one.
However, if you are not reaching that same amount of satisfaction when you say the same things to yourself alone, without your companions, then how confident are you really?

This is actually something people can sense about you.

You should be able to radiate the energy of self love and confidence just by being silent and by letting your actions and habits show it all.


This is for you.

Exercise to know that you’re being healthy. Your body will thank you in the long run.
Here’s a quote for you to take while you leave:

Personality can either kill or enhance your appearance


Here are the 3 main points that I think you might have missed when reading this blog post:

Everything has beauty but not everyone sees it…and that’s okay.

The only person you should be trying to make a point to is yourself. Everything else will fall into place in due time. Just leave it all to God.

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