Two free birds with a common goal
Spiritual Guide, Consultant, Tantra Teacher
My mission on this planet is to help people to find Love. It is not a recent endeavour, it has been a constant thread all my life. As an idealistic boy I was in Love with nature and animals, I thought I could become a vet to serve the animals I loved. Soon though, I came to see the injustice, hypocrisy and greed among humanity. I was revolted. I wanted things to change. I wanted to make the world a better place and nothing else had interest to my eyes.
Full of illusions, I volunteered in an organisation to help the powerless in Africa. For 20 years working around the world in the most devastated and dangerous places from Uganda to El Salvador to Yugoslavia, I witnessed wars and famine up close & personal. I have seen epidemics and far too many children dying. I have spent my life surrounded by guns and I am proud to say that I never carried one. Then I had a daughter, we named her Lucy, which means light. I knew that to raise a child I had to surround myself with Love and not suffering, so I started an inner journey to replace the darkness I had seen with some light.
I started Aikido and meditation, I read books about Buddhism and was inspired by Zen. I travelled to India and I was directed to Yoga. I did a first training and became a yoga teacher. I was so hungry for light that I practiced and trained thousands of hours and taught hundreds of students. I read every book I could find, studied with masters of their art, I could not stop searching for that elusive truth. With my partner at the time, I founded a school of Yoga called Yogi-nomad. We worked hard, opened many minds and trained many yoga teachers. We travelled, we shared, and we also grew apart.
When the separation came it seemed nothing alive was left inside of me and I wondered what had gone wrong. I started to inquire into the art of relating, finding what makes a relation work. I learned new modalities and met new teachers. I studied more yoga, and also Qi Gong, and Tantra. I met oracles and shamans, I befriended a white witch and some amazing beings who had seen the light in different ways. I enjoyed taking tea with yogins living in caves in the mountains of the Himalaya near my home. I philosophised with a Swami in his ashram. I spent silent times in monasteries, I fasted, I sat. Along the way I experienced deep spiritual insights and profound mental shifts, my kundalini awakened. After all this time searching, today I am here with you to share what I found. My focus is towards Relationship because I believe it is the most powerful tool to heal and learn, it will transform you from inside out. I believe Relationships are sacred and that their purpose is for your soul to grow and evolve.
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Priestess & Transformational Coach
I am here in service to the Divine Goddess, in full surrender to what is asking to be expressed as ME! I am here to be a joyful beacon of light and truth on our planet at this time, and I commit to serving you towards the dreams of your heart’s deepest longing. I am thrilled you have come to our online community and are looking further into what we are all about. Welcome!
My credo: Everything is Important, Nothing is Serious. Learning to PLAY my role with ever more grace & ease, I am convinced that there is an unlimited amount of joy and fun involved in living a life to its fullest. Why take ourselves and our dramas so seriously? Life is begging to be lived with guffaws and grins! I am living to make Love with Life Itself! I believe we all are! This is our birthright!
Seriously, though? No, not serious. Strike that word from your vocab. We’ve had enough of serious, haven’t we?
Honestly, though. My past has not been all glitter and gumdrops, and it took some meaningful spiritual work to revitalize my relationship with Life. My personal relationship history includes physical abuse, emotional blackmail, jealousy, and conditional notions of love from the time of childhood. I have been to the bottom of the trenches, driven to my knees at the heart of despair. From there I was given a clue to finding Divinity in everyday moments, a light in the darkness. I was shown a path towards developing a spirituality that honored the things that felt Sacred to ME, free of dogma and limits.
Since then my life has revolved around cultivating this stillness, self-awareness, creative expression and self-Love that is required to Live in Love and Play Full Out! For me, this meant finding my place in the natural world, studying with shamanic gurus and fully realized teachers, long spells of silence, prayer and meditation, growing in emotional maturity, honing and trusting my intuition, releasing bonds and obligations of the past, seeing my Beauty in its FULLness, and doing so in Deep Faith & Gratitude that I am always in the Right Place at the Right Time.
As all of this played out, I saw an area of my life that was begging to be deeper and greater than good enough. I had a keen desire to make sense of my sexual desire. All other areas of my life were addressed by the spiritual teachings I had found, yet when it came to sex I noticed a big void in the program. I saw that as long as this area of my life wasn’t blossoming and Divine, I was ignoring a huge and natural part of what it means to be in this body AND be a spiritual being. The teachings I found through yoga, directly inspired by Tantric tradition, enhanced my way of relating with mySelf and my partner so profoundly that I felt called to share what I was learning with anyone who was ready.
Much of my life’s work has revolved around empowering women. We are such mysterious and magical beings! Now I can see no greater way to get to the Truth of our Power than to unleash the Love within us, to hold ourSelves and our bodies Sacred, and to let the creative juices of Life flow through us. I offer myself as a resource from a place of compassion and understanding. I know the importance of whimsically delighting in Life’s blessings. I know we must first come to love our Self before we can give Love without binds out into the world. I know that when we do, we see it flowing back a hundred-fold. If this sounds like something you want to be a part of, then get connected and let’s Play!